Encino Gentle Dental

Gentle Care for Dental Anxiety in Encino, California

The Real Reason I Became a Dentist? I Have Dental Anxiety Too.

Dr. Elizabeth Wolfe, DDS, speaking about dental anxiety

If you’ve avoided the dentist because of fear, shame, trauma, or just overwhelm… I understand. I know what it’s like to sit in that chair and feel like you might fall apart. 

It still happens to me when I am in the dental chair.  

That’s why I built this dental practice. FOR PEOPLE LIKE US!!!

Watch: How to Overcome Dental Anxiety

There’s a Reason You’re Afraid of the Dentist And It’s Definitely Not Your Fault.

Treatment room at Encino Gentle Dental with a patient reclining in the chair
Dental anxiety is real. It’s not a weakness.  It’s often the result of pain, trauma, or fear that’s been ignored or dismissed.
I know, because I’ve lived it myself.

Here are just some of the reasons people
stay away from the dentist for years:

Fear of Pain
especially if numbing hasn’t worked

Loss of Control
lying back, unable to speak, unsure what’s happening
Past Trauma
medical or personal experiences that left you feeling unsafe (and yes, that can include past abuse by dental or medical providers.)
Shame
about how long it’s been or how things “look”
Sensory Overload the sound of drills, the lights, the smells
Lack of Trust
you’ve been dismissed, rushed, or judged before

For some people, even making the appointment feels impossible.

That’s not weakness. That’s a nervous system doing its job and trying to protect you. You’re not broken. You’ve been protecting yourself. 

Maybe it’s time to let someone who truly gets where your coming from help protect you from all that anxiety

I Built This Practice for the Anxiety-Ridden Patient I Used to Be

You don’t have to explain yourself here. We already understand.
I know what it feels like to cancel appointments, brace for pain, or panic in the chair. (and feel overwhelmed or embarrassed about it.)
Our dental office is a place where nervous systems are respected, not rushed.

I’ve spent years refining a calm, personalized approach to dental care. It’s rooted in empathy, not pressure.

Child reclining in the dental chair during a calm, unhurried visit

Here’s how we help you feel safe:

  • 1
    Quiet, private treatment rooms
  • 2
    Noise-canceling headphones (you choose the music or podcast)
  • 3
    Green-tinted calming glasses
  • 4
    Optional sedation: laughing gas, oral medication, or IV
  • 5
    Step-by-step explanations, only if you want them
  • 6
    A doctor who listens first, always
  • 7
    No judgment. No pressure. Ever.

Personalized Sedation Options for Every Patient

Nitrous Oxide (Laughing Gas)

A safe, mild sedative inhaled through a mask that helps you feel calm and relaxed during treatment. The effects wear off quickly, allowing you to return to your normal routine right after your visit.

Oral Sedation:

A simple pill taken before your appointment to ease anxiety and keep you comfortable during care. You’ll stay awake but very relaxed, and because the effects linger, you’ll need someone to drive you home afterward.

IV Sedation:

Medication delivered directly into your bloodstream for a deeper level of calm and comfort. IV sedation is administered by a licensed dental anesthesiologist who is present for the full appointment. You’ll remain conscious but very relaxed, and most patients remember little of the procedure once it’s complete. (Provided by a licensed anesthesiologist in our office)

For the full detail on how each level works, how the level is chosen and what safety monitoring consists of, see our sedation dentistry page.

Our Services, All Designed to Be Gentle and Comfortable:

You’re Not the First Person Who’s Been Afraid. And Like So Many We’ve Helped, You Can Feel Safe (and Protected)  in the Dental Chair.

Let us help you take the first step toward that feeling.
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What Anxious Patients Say After Their First Visit

5.0from 57 Google reviews

“This is the best dental place ever. I have had an extreme fear of the dentist my whole life (I’m 25) but they made the scary needle shots so painless. I was there for a little over two hours and I actually was so relaxed I fell asleep part way through. They make you extremely comfortable. Btw the whole team is amazing. They’re warm, friendly and go out of their way to support you if you have dental anxiety and they never shame you for dental problems. 10/10 recommend.”

Nastasia Davidson
5-star Google review

“I can’t be more grateful for finding Dr. Wolfe and her office team. If saying I’m terrified about going to the dentist due to past experience is an understatement. I actually look forward to sticking to multiple yearly cleanings and staying consistent. Love this office. If anyone suffers from dental anxiety this is your place. Thank you guys for making my experience great.”

Suzanne Skaff
5-star Google review

“Best dentist ever! Trust the process… it’s absolutely worth every penny. Her experience was evident as she anticipated my needs and calmly explained the procedure every step of the way. The professionalism and patience of the entire team was a breath of fresh air.”

Raellen Boyd
5-star Google review

Read all 57 reviews on Google

Dr. Elizabeth Wolfe, DDS, at her Encino dental practice

Meet Dr. Elizabeth Wolfe

Dental Anxiety Patient.

Dentist. Listener.

Dr. Elizabeth Wolfe, DDS, at her Encino dental practice
I became a dentist because I wanted to help people  but I discovered my true path when I realized I was one of the people I was trying to help.
“Even now, I sometimes sit in the dental chair and feel the old spiral begin: the fear of pain, the overthinking, the loss of control. It’s not just something I’ve overcome. It’s something I live with, and have learned how to meet with compassion.”
That’s why I built this practice: to offer others the kind of understanding and safety I once couldn’t find. I believe in providing emotional safety, nervous system respect, and radical empathy from the front desk to the operatory.

Licensed DDS in California

Advanced training in care for medically and emotionally complex patients

Certified in Oral Conscious Sedation

Questions People Ask Before Their First Visit

Will I be unconscious?

No. None of the three options offered here put you to sleep. Nitrous oxide, oral sedation and IV sedation all leave you conscious and able to respond — what changes is how deeply relaxed you are and how much of the appointment you remember afterwards. General anesthesia, the kind used in an operating room, is a different thing and is not what is described on this page.

Numbing has never worked properly on me. Is that in my head?

No, and it is more common than most people are told. Some people clear local anesthetic quickly, some have nerve anatomy that sits slightly off the textbook, and inflamed tissue is genuinely harder to numb than healthy tissue. It is also true that bracing for pain makes you feel more of what is happening. Either way the practical answer is the same: say so before we start, and if you feel anything sharp we stop and add more.

How do I know which level of sedation is right for me?

It is decided in conversation beforehand, not on the day. What matters is how long the appointment will take, how you have responded to dental treatment in the past, your medical history and the medications you already take. Some people who arrive certain they need IV sedation do perfectly well with nitrous once they know they can stop at any point.

Can I still stop partway through?

Yes. Sedation is not a commitment to finish. Agreeing on a signal before treatment begins — usually a raised hand — is standard practice here, and using it is not a failure. Stopping and coming back is a normal outcome, not a wasted appointment.

Will I need someone to drive me home?

It depends which option you have. With nitrous oxide, no — it clears within minutes of the mask coming off and you can drive yourself and go back to work. With oral sedation, yes, because the effects linger well past the appointment. With IV sedation, yes, and it is worth keeping the rest of the day free rather than planning around it.

Is sedation safe if I have sleep apnea?

It has to be part of the conversation. Sedatives relax the muscles that hold the upper airway open, which is the same mechanism behind obstructive sleep apnea, so a diagnosis changes how sedation is planned and monitored and sometimes which level is appropriate. Tell us if you have been diagnosed, if you have a CPAP machine whether or not you use it, and if anyone has told you that you snore heavily — that last one matters even without a diagnosis.

Do I have to have any treatment at the first visit?

No. You can come in, talk, have a look at what is going on and leave without anything being done. For a lot of people who have avoided dentistry for years, that first appointment doing nothing is the whole point — it is how the next one becomes possible.

You Don’t Have to Be Ready for a Cleaning.
You Just Have to Be Ready for a Conversation.

Whether it’s been 1 year or 20, you are welcome here. You don’t need to be brave, just honest. We’ll meet you exactly where you are.

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You’ve taken the hardest step already by looking for help.

There is no shame here. No pressure. No timeline. When you’re ready, we’re ready. Everything you share with us is confidential.

Prefer to talk it through first? Call us now.
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